Mega Gripe

This guy is such a dead beat dad. I met him in the spring of 2002, and we were together for three years. He promised to marry me and to love me and to work through our differences if they ever arose. We were on the brink of getting married (planning and had most of the details worked out) and I found out I was expecting (yeah go birth control .. fail). Anyway, we both wanted to wait until the baby was born to go through with the whole process and have the baby in the wedding. It would have been nice, but money and some of the plans fell through and it never happened. About 6-8 months after my child was born, he got a new job. He was a truck driver for about a month when suddenly, the money that he had earned to pay the bills and food for our home was slowly leaving the bank account. I was worried that we (my child and I) would be kicked out (for it was a rented house) and onto the street. I called him on the company cell phone and he told me he was only buying snacks and drinks on the road. I didnt believe that snacks and drinks were hundreds of dollars. So, I called around and looked up some information and finally found out that this man had been using our bill and food money for strippers and beer in Nevada!! I was shocked. I called him up and he told me he would be home in a few days and that we would talk it out. We didnt talk it out. I tore up the debit card and told him if he wanted money, he would ask me to transfer it to him. When he went on another job, he cut me and my son (now almost 9 mo's old) off completely. Told me that he wasnt coming home and that if I ever wanted any of his money that I would have to physically go to Montana (at the time thats where he was at) and get it. So, I got kicked out of the rented home and was living with my mother for two more months. Needless to say I broke up with him over the phone and ended everything right then and there. My son and I are fine now, but this man cheated on me twice (i didnt find out until I was with my current husband), stole money out of the bank account, he left his ex girlfriend and other children (I didnt find out about them either until I was with my current husband), in the dust and dirt. He is a no good son of a *censored* and should be treated as such.