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Name Approx. Age Listed in Location
worst Jan R Merklin
(His/Her Alias (AKA) GoodGuytn57 or Ablehandyman)
52 Relationships / Cheaters/Adulterers United States

The Complaint:

This guy is DANGEROUS! An Abuser, a user and seems to always get by with it. He moves around the country, romancing "older" women. He is unattractive and crude, but will make you "feel sorry" for his "plight and life". 4 times married (that I know about), he has a string of women he has used all over. A woman in Florida lost her home because he told her they could make a lot of money "flipping houses" and she took out a mortgage to get money to do that. He took the money, left town (supposedly to find the houses) and used it to romance his "next" true love. An ex-wife ended up giving him $3,000 just to end the marriage when he demanded a portion of her IRA/retirement account (after a marriage of less than 6 months). He has 2 charges of domestic abuse on his record (different women), and 2 of his divorces mentioned "repeated physical abuse". He will not work if there is any money of yours he can get his hands on. He will co-mingle your funds, saying he wants you to manage the money as you are better at it. He will berate and bully you into buying things for him. He did my taxes, then when I left him, told me he was going to turn me into the IRS for tax fraud. If he gets your phone number or address, he will show up and never leave. Once in your home, he is considered a "Tenant" and it takes a long legal battle to get him out. He will tell you, I can fix this and that on your home (he normally will target home owning women), and proceed to demolish everything he can (under the guise of having to tear down to "fix it") and then refuse to repair it or finish the work. He sits day after day in front of the computer, where he is signed up for every dating service and "sex" service there is. He chats for hours with women, making dates, and having "cam" sex. Anytime your back is turned, he will be on there, talking to other women, making plans to meet them, romancing them. He knows when you figure out his agenda, you will get rid of him, and he is setting up his "next con". HE IS DANGEROUS>>>>>>> VERY DANGEROUS> He will abuse you physically and mentally, will steal anything he can take from you, will cheat on you...... while all the time, smiling at you and telling you that you are his one true love. If you send him an email telling him how nice he is to you, he will print it and keep it, so if you ever take him to court, he will have proof of "how nice" he is. During arguments, he will have a tape recorder in his pocket. He will cuss you, call you names and berate you until you lose your cool and "say things back". He turns on the recorder when you start talking, and "whoop" he has proof that YOU were the abusive one. He worms his way into your life (and oh.... he seems so pitiful and innocent, and ohhh... he talks how women have just used him all his life and no one ever really loved him), and then it will cost you dearly to ever get rid of him. He talks about how his "ex-wife" set him up to charge him with abuse. (no set up, the abuse was there.... I've talked to her). He talks about how another ex was bi-polar and drank. (He slipped and told me once that he was supposed to be on prozac and don't take it..... wonder if he isn't the bi-polar one?). I've spoken to her, and she is a wonderful, successful intelligent woman. Another woman, he declares was violent and he had to leave to escape her abuse. He set her up by abusing her till she couldn't take any more and she fought back. He had her arrested. So, he has proof she was "violent", but he was the agitator in the violence. All women out there, I know, he seems so sweet, but look carefully at what he says. It is all a sham to sucker you in. When you get him, you can't get rid of him. HE IS TROUBLE AND YOU WILL BE SORRY YOU EVER MET HIM!
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