Mega Gripe

I met James on MySpace over a year ago. We dated for a few months, and subsequently broke up. He is a liar, and a manipulator. Be careful in ANY dealings with him as he is emotionally/mentally unstable. He has uncontrollable anger, and is prone to outbursts and tantrums which you'd expect of a 4yr old child. He starts out all sweet and nice. Mere weeks after getting involved with him, he was already talking about getting married, and having babies with me. He pushes so hard to get whatever it is that he wants at the time, and I was sadly too blind to see it until too late. What woman wouldn't want to have her boyfriend call everyday? What woman wouldn't want to have her boyfriend tell her that he loves her, and wants to build a life together? This is his tactic. He never told me that he had been married, and has a son, until a 3rd party contacted me to share this information. When I questioned him about it, he started crying (literally!), and then quickly switched over to anger, claiming that someone is just out to screw him over, again! It wasn't long before I was receiving messages from other people whom have had dealings with him, all stating different facts from his past that he had made no mention of before. He has been in jail a few times, one of which was because he "allegedly" sexually *censored* another female soldier - which he denies to this day, even though he did plead guilty. James was also arrested for AWOL from the Army (he says this was a "misunderstanding", too), and he's been arrested for Polygamy, too! Yes, he was married to a woman here in California, and also to another woman in Texas! He says that some lawyer messed him over because he thought that he was divorced from the woman in California - not true! He was most definately still married to her, and then, in a move he's not explained, he got engaged to yet another woman out in Texas (he was stationed out there at Fort Bliss)! That would've made 3 wives in 2 different states! Again, he denies this, and says that people are just out to get him, but things just aren't adding up with him! James has stolen $500 from my best friend, which he had no right to even ask him for ANYTHING as James does not know this person! We were at Disneyland, and James had said that he'd cover the cost of the hotel stay, but for some reason, James' credit card wasn't charged, but my best friend's was! They usually put the bill under your door in the morning of the day that you check out, but he hid the bill from my best friend while he was in the shower! We didn't find out until it was too late. James doesn't deny that he owes my best friend, but refuses to pony up any money to this day - it's been nearly a year since that happened. For as long as I've know James, he's always carried some type of knife on him at all times! Be careful, I do believe that he is dangerous enough to actually use it on someone! He claims PTSD for all of his actions, but he's been home for over 3yrs! He does NOTHING to support himself, and lives at his father's house, and has his father pay for all of this things. Yet, he can manage to come up with money for useless things, like toys, tattoos, peircings, and what-nots. Now, James and his new girlfriend are harassing me! I did sent an email to her because I was concerned for HER SAFETY as well as HER SON'S SAFETY. A logical person would have taken what I had said, which was without ANY vulgarity, profanity, and threats, into consideration, but low and behold, she's now threatening to hunt me down, and making claims that she's "law enforcement family", and the military; she's told me repeatedly that she can find me whenever she wants to. I don't take threats like this lightly, and I've repeatedly asked her to stop talking to me. She hasn't, and continues to send me emails that aren't so pleasant. James has gone silent, which leads me to believe that he's planning some form of revenge on me. While he doesn't have any "real" friends of his own, he does know other crazy people, and I would not put it past him at all! He is dangerous, and very manipulative! Don't fall for his "I'm a poor, broken soldier" routine because that's all it is: a routine! He wasn't in Iraq, he was hurt stateside. He's hellbent on making sure anyone whom he deems as "against him" pay - this now includes me. I'm filing with the police, and they're already aware of his actions. DO NOT GET INVOLVED WITH HIM! HE IS DANGEROUS! ...and, no, this isn't some ex-girlfriend that just wants him back. I'm filing a restraining order, and he's being taken to court for the money he owes my best friend. I want nothing more to do with him. I just want the general public to be aware of him.